
I agree with the critical consensus that John Cassavettes’ A Woman Under the Influence is the definitive cinematic treatment of female mental illness in a connubial setting. The movie stakes its credibility on a marital dynamic that is perhaps specific to its time and place, but from Gena Rowlands’ harrowing portrayal of Mabel Longhetti emerges a universal understanding of just what it is about being a housewife and mother under those particular circumstances that can drive you crazy. Lynne Ramsay’s Die My Love covers similar circumstances but tends to shade more toward post partum depression as its malady-du-jour, but if it comes across as less convincing than Cassavettes’ vision it’s mainly because of Ramsay’s expressionism, which in the end dilutes much of its power. A Woman Under the Influence was as raw as you can get, a mode of presentation that’s much more difficult to pull off, but if you can the results are devastating.
The couple in question is Grace (Jennifer Lawrence) and Jackson (Robert Pattinson), who aren’t married when we first meet them as they inspect a rural house in poor repair that Jackson has casually inherited from an uncle who we later learn killed himself. Grace subsequently becomes pregnant and a daughter is born, but even before the blessed event Ramsay provides haunting premonitions of psychic trouble to come, as if preparing us for the worst. Jackson’s occupation is never explained—he seems to spend a lot of time on the road in his pickup truck—and Grace is a writer, though it’s not clear if she’s ever been published or whether it’s a vocation she’s worked at. Ramsay’s script, which she wrote with playwright Enda Walsh and Alice Birch, is based on a novel by Arian Harwicz that throws out the idea that Grace’s emotional conflicts may be triggered by writer’s block, but as the movie progresses and the separation between reality and fantasy becomes blurred, the writer’s block theme feels more and more like an unfairly proferred red herring. She starts seeing a guy on a motorcycle (LaKeith Stanfield) who vrooms past their house and either has sex with him or imagines she does. She becomes willfully contrary to everyone she meets, including store clerks and hospital nurses, and her heightened sexual demands of Jackson are treated with suspicion, not because Jackson doesn’t want it but because the come-ons are theatrically creepy. The only person who seems to sympathize with Grace’s situation is her senile father-in-law (Nick Nolte), whose condition, it’s suggested, allows him to intuit her pain, and once he’s gone (again, Ramsay denies us any details about his death) it falls to his wife (Sissy Spacek) to assume the burden of being Grace’s sympathizer/confessor.
The tension never lets up, mainly because there is always an infant around and Grace’s unstable behavior makes the viewer fear for the child’s safety. If Jackson proves to be an even less reliable husband in terms of helping his wife get through her trauma than Peter Falk’s Nick in A Woman Under the Influence it’s mainly because he seems inert as a character. Lawrence and Pattinson are fascinating to watch, especially together, but the lack of backstory and vague indications of past trauma only serve to highlight the drama of Grace’s actions, not the actual sickness. There’s a lot of sound and fury here, but little of it makes much sense.
Now playing in Tokyo at Human Trust Cinema Yurakucho (03-6259-8608), Shinjuku Wald 9 (03-5369-4955), Human Trust Cinema Shibuya (03-5468-5551).
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